Maryland families who want to take in foster kids face an odd hurdle: State law prohibits foster children from using bunk beds.
The fine print of the Maryland’s foster care regulations says: “Each child shall have an individual bed that may not be stacked in vertical bunk bed formation.”
In practice, this means that if you don’t have a lot of extra space or money, you may be disqualified from foster parenting—even if you’re a relative who knows and loves the kids and desperately wants to keep the family together.
Ana Beltran, Director of the Grandfamilies & Kinship Support Network, a nonprofit that focuses on intergenerational issues, says the law makes things tough for extended families trying to lend a hand. She gave the example of a grandmother who wants to have the grandchildren come live with her, rather than having them sent to foster care.
“Maybe she’s in affordable housing, in a studio apartment,” says Beltran. “Where is she going to put the grandkids if she doesn’t create a bunkbed situation?”
The rule, one hopes, was created to make sure kids have a safe place to sleep. But other states approve of bunk beds. After all, the beds themselves are not the big picture.
“The ultimate objective is to keep these families together,” says Beltran.
Naturally, you don’t want a foster family’s biological kid luxuriating in a Barbie bedroom while the foster kids are crammed into a closet. But other than that, the goal should be to find a great home, not a great bedroom set.
Maryland should be particularly aware of the downside of ruling out homes, considering a new report that found the state temporarily housing some kids in office buildings and hotels while an appropriate placement was sought.
Beltran tried to find out if Maryland’s rule was passed in the wake of a bunk bed tragedy, but came up empty. Usually, that’s what precedes idiosyncratic laws. Beltran recalled another law saying foster families could not have one specific breed of dog after that breed had bitten a child. But the bunk bed provision remained a mystery.
Ruth White, Executive Director of the National Center for Housing & Child Welfare, asked some current and former foster care youth if they had any idea where the policy might come from. They thought it made sense in only one kind of case: When a foster family effectively starts running a group home without calling it that. White heard of one foster family with enough bunk beds for 10 kids.
In other cases, when it really is just a family trying to fit a kid or kids into their home, the authorities may ignore the bunk bed mandate, according to White. That kind of flexibility is smart and humane, but if a law requires ignoring, shouldn’t it just be eliminated?
“Doing anything by legislation takes longer than just encouraging people not to enforce it,” White says.
Sonya Benjay, a grandmother in Maryland, is grateful for the crumbs of common sense tossed her way. She was living in Kentucky when her three grandchildren—two girls and a boy, all under 10—needed a foster home.
“At the time, I was living in a small place by myself,” she says. While child protective services allowed her to take the kids in, the authorities also wanted her to get a larger place—and they gave her just two weeks to do so. She immediately went looking for a two-bedroom home, and bunkbeds.
But that was a problem.
“They said, ‘You can’t put them in bunks,'” says Benjay. The grandmother told them that finding a new place to live, moving all her belongings, and buying three new beds within two weeks was asking too much, and the state relented. They said she could have bunk beds.
Miraculously, Benjay managed to jump through the hoops, all “with no help from the state.”
“I had to dig into my retirement,” she says.
But she got the kids. She even managed to cram three beds into one of the bedrooms to make sure no one could complain about a bunk bed situation. Because when you know the government is evaluating your child-raising decisions, it’s awfully hard to sleep easy.
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